So this stupid son of a bitch called my bluff and did not solder the harness till about 7.30 which was off time, i mean it worked in my favour as i was not 100% prepared to let him eat my ass with whatever sauce he wanted (yes he asked)... but he did put extra effort and did it after work.. i was shocked...
WORLD PREMIERE OF THIS GAYOSITY SEE BELOW:

Later confirmation that it worked but still isn't installed.
Saturday came, and we were predicting a sound session in a parking lot of some grocery store but i did not hear from which worked out ok cuz its cold here.
So i hear that Bennitto had a sever headache. Below is an artists rendition of what it may have looked like to people around him:

He took 5 + advils to suppress it but i think it was a deep rooted fear of something happening or rather not happening e.g
(private info here)
So anyway after the advil thing the stereo is still not in but atleast the harness is in...
1 week for the harness to be done right.. i suppose it could be worse.

P.S I don't know how blogging happens i feel gayer by the minute as i type.